This is a picture of Me and my ex-girlfriend Lisa. I'm about 19 or 20 years old in this picture,.. and Lisa was about 2 years younger than me if I remember right.
I'm about 45 years old now at the time of writing this page,.. it's June 10th, 2007 today,.. so that picture was taken near 25 years ago.
Lisa was the last relationship that I was ever in with a girl. She was 5 foot 11 inches tall. And we were dressed up to go to some Holloween party in this picture.
I believe that in this picture here is the closest me and Lisa ever stood next to each other during our whole 4 and a half year relationship.
When I look at this picture I think,... "I don't ever want to look like that again".
It's my height that I'm talking about. I don't ever want to be the guy that is too short for his girl friend ever again.
For me,.. it's like,... I'm having to be the feminine one by being the shorter one.
And to tell you the truth,.. I've never been able to walk up to any girl that's taller than me in a going to kiss sort of way. Like I just can't do that...
Me and Lisa lasted for such a long time because neither one of us were interested in putting our arms around each other or holding hands while standing.
I had a girl friend for a little while before Lisa that was shorter than me,... and she liked to put her arms around me and hold hands and I just "LOVED IT"...
So "I KNOW" what is right for me when it comes to a girls height.....
Girls that are shorter than me are the girls that could match up with me.
I'm pretty short though,.. I've thought that at my height there's a lot less girls to choose from,.. and that most of them would probably prefer a taller than me guy anyway.
Every single girl I hung out with back in my 23rd year of life was taller than Me. And even the girl a kind of dated may of been slightly taller than me and even said one night something negative about my height and how she may be able to get use to it though... |